Clarity Not Confusion
Purpose and Direction
Hope and Forgiveness
Peace and Eternal Life..
His Plan is Best
Published by Deborah Negron M.A.
March 27, 2021
God loves people… He loves all people. He, however, hates sin.
Sin separates us from God.
God created male and female.
He has made us in a particular way in order to cause humanity to continue.
Procreation, physical unity and a fulfillment of his plan on earth to grow, multiply and enjoy the gifts of marriage, family and to care for one another.
The enemy always seeks to destroy what is beautiful and divine.
Pure love is Sacred and between a man as and a woman.
Children that grow up in single parent homes are more likely to have failing grades, loss of self esteem, a lack of drive to progress. Statistics tell us that children growing up without a dad are more than not, delinquents, problematic and end up in gangs and in undesirable situations with drugs and the streets.
A child in a two parent loving home will thrive. Yes, there are exceptions to this but overall, these tend to be more successful and to complete school and progress in higher learning. A mom and Dad is God’s ideal for mankind.
Now there have been some exceptional single parents who have gone above and beyond for their kids. This should be noted. But for the most part this is not the norm. It is harder to raise children alone. It was God’s purpose for success in a home, financially, emotionally, socially and spiritually. To have both parents is the ideal.
The enemy chose to thwart the natural process by bringing confusion, sexual identity crisis leads some, into the loneliness of a lifestyle that hinders a lasting relationship. It leads some to feel it necessary to seek same sex unions. The sad part is there is not peace within. Sin may seem enjoyable and freeing for a season, exhilarating and exciting at first but then it leads to deep sadness. Relationships that cannot prosper, no children, no one to share one’s faith with. Guilt and depression and a sense of being rejected always tends to follow those in these lifestyles.
They claim freedom to be something they were not created to be. Outside of God’s plan for our lives, we will continue to stumble and fail. Success for some in business and in wealth, having properties and whatever they think will make them successful does not lead them to a true fulfillment in life. The truth is in while Counseling some in this life style, the loneliness and deep sadness they feel cannot be calmed.
The only peace we can truly come to is found in a relationship with Jesus Christ. Living out God’s plan is the best thing one can do in life.
Life is hard and time does not stop. It is a series of events, circumstances, actions and reactions. Planning and discernment, skill and wisdom is needed to navigate these waters. Yet God has a map. When he is at the Helm of our Ship we will be truly at peace. He will lead us and steer us away from the dangers of living a life of confusion and pain.
When we know the Captain we will know the port of eternal safety. He places a beacon of hope, He gives us the Holy Spirit to guide our path. The waters will not drown us as long as we know the Master of the wind.
God made a way, He tells us the truth so we could be free from the bondage of sin.
The Lord desires for every human being to have, a life that is fulfilled with joy and peace. In the midst of the storms we all face, God desires to hold us and keep us from eternal harm.
The Bible says the wages of sin is death but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord Romans 6:23
All have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God. Romans 3:23
Sin is sin, the sin of lust, sin of stealing, sin of hatred and sin of homosexuality. Idolatry, selfishness are all sin. All sin took Jesus to the cross.
He did it for love… He gave himself as a sacrifice and an offering in order to redeem all of us.
For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son that whosoever believes in him will not perish but have everlasting life.
Sin makes human beings act on self gratification and the lusts, desires, and wants that are sinful. Whether it is sexual sins or sins of greed for egocentric means, Sin separates us from coming to God.
The sin of idolatry is when we place someone or something above God. We desire most to cling to this and do whatever it takes to please us. In homosexuality the drive is self idolatry.
What I feel is right.
What I want’s right.
What I desire to do is good for me.
I cannot trust God for my future, my hope, my provision. I am autonomous needing no one.
What a horrible lie to live alive without following God’s purpose.
Let’s see what scripture says on the matter. These are not my words or opinions. This is God’s law.
You shall not lie with a male as with a woman. It is an abomination. Nor shall you mate with any animal, to defile yourself with it. Nor shall any woman stand before an animal to mate with it. It is perversion. ‘Do not defile yourselves with any of these things; for by all these the nations are defiled, which I am casting out before you.
If a man lies with a male as he lies with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination. They shall surely be put to death. Their blood shall be upon them.
For this reason God gave them up to vile passions. For even their women exchanged the natural use for what is against nature. Likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust for one another, men with men committing what is shameful, and receiving in themselves the penalty of their error which was due. And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a debased mind, to do those things which are not fitting; being filled with all unrighteousness, sexual immorality, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, strife, deceit, evil-mindedness; they are whisperers, backbiters, haters of God, violent, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents, undiscerning, untrustworthy, unloving, unforgiving, unmerciful; who, knowing the righteous judgment of God, that those who practice such things are deserving of death, not only do the same but also approve of those who practice them.
It is clear in both the Old Testament and the new Testament. God does not change.
His word also says.
This is the message which we have heard from Him and declare to you, that God is light and in Him is no darkness at all. If we say that we have fellowship with Him, and walk in darkness, we lie and do not practice the truth. But if we walk in the light as He is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus Christ His Son cleanses us from all sin. If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
I John 1:5-9
Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.
He can give you rest from confusion, from feeling alone, from being rejected.
He can restore your live and give you his awesome plan and purpose for your life.
He wants to give us his joy and his presence always.
God loves all people.
Every color and Shade, every Size and Shape, Every age and from every place.
His desire is that we would know him and his plan for us.
For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the Lord , thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope. Then you will call upon Me and go and pray to Me, and I will listen to you. And you will seek Me and find Me, when you search for Me with all your heart.